What is men's fixation with strip
clubs? Do strippers really have anything that ordinary women don't, some
mythical set of tricks that they use in order to drive men wild? The short
answer to this is no, they don't. Strippers are ordinary women working a job,
and it is unlikely that they are any sexier, better in bed, or more seductive
than any other woman on the street when it comes to their personal life. In the
strip club, it's a different story: a stripper's purpose is to keep a man
hooked on her sex appeal while taking as much of his money as she can.
Therefore, everything she does must be a fabulous tease that is never
consummated: as Chris Rock so famously said, there is no sex in the champagne
room. It turns out that men are really aroused by a close proximity to
something they can't have. As an ordinary woman, you too can cash in on this
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Here's how to do it:
Wear a Cute Outfit
What you take off is almost as important as your ultimate nakedness. You want to look alluring and seductive when you begin. A good pair of high heels that accentuates and lengthens your legs is important, and pretty lingerie will show off your figure regardless of what you usually wear on top of it. If all else fails, wear your bathing suit.
Find a Comfy Chair or Couch
Your skin might stick to leather upholstery, and a chair with casters might roll away from you, so pick your furniture carefully. A wide, sturdy upholstered armchair with enough room for him and most of you will work well, as will a longer non-leather couch (if either of you gets the slightest bit sweaty, your skin could stick to the leather unpleasantly).
Undress Slowly
At the strip club, a stripper's goal is to prolong a man's pleasure for as much time as possible. After all, should he ever become satisfied, she will stop being paid. So moving slowly from step to step is key: the seductive, tantalizing pace is a nice by-product of the stripper's desire to keep her customer from reaching satiety. So take your time. If you're wearing real clothes on top of your lingerie, unbutton your shirt and unzip your skirt slowly before stepping out of them to reveal yourself. Slide one bra strap off your shoulder, then the other. Smile. Be sure to turn around slowly a few times to give him a good view of your body as you undress slowly.
Drive Him Wild with These Moves
Once you're naked or down to a pair of panties, walk over to your man in his chair. Part his knees with yours, and bend down over him so that your breasts are in his face. Then nuzzle his neck, trailing your hair over his shoulders. Hold the top of the chair with both hands and use it to support your body weight as you gently slide your body down the length of his. Come to rest on your knees in front of him, where you look up seductively. Rub his legs with your arms, and move your head between his legs so that the angle looks, to him, like you're going to perform fellatio. Then slide your body back up his, resting on his lap. Grind your hips slowly. Make sure you dictate the pace. If he gets handsy or insistent, remind him that you're in charge. If one position seems to turn him on, stay there for a little while and then switch it up. You're not trying to get him off, you're trying to drag out your dance as long as possible. Offer him various views of your body: bent over in front of him, kneeling between his knees and looking up at him, sitting on his lap facing away from him with one arm cradling his head, bent over him from the front with your boobs in his face. Don't be shy. You are the prize.
Don't Forget to Make Eye Contact
Eye contact is the most important part. Look up occasionally, not only to gauge how you're doing, but to accent the motions of your body with your face. Keep a sparkling, teasing look in your eyes and smile from time to time. Remember, the idea here is to be admired, so take the complimentary stare as your due and keep going until you're ready to move on to another stage.
You're in Control
A lot of men have a hard time controlling themselves during a sexy lapdance. They want to put their hands on you, tell you which way to turn or grind or look at them, or escalate the lapdance into a sex act. It's your job to keep them in their place. Gently grab their wrists if you feel they're touching you too much or trying to take over your show. Put your finger over their lips if they're talking too much. Tell them that this is your game and you're going to play it until you're done. At a real strip club, there are bouncers to help with this, but since you're presumably giving a sexy amateur lapdance for someone you would actually hook up with, keeping your control in a lapdance is for the turn-on of a prolonged tease: yours and his.
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